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Silent threads of home

There is a language only women speak — heard in the clatter of pots at dawn and in the simmering broth that carries the memory of old kitchens across oceans and years.

A mother cooking a meal or a grandmother teaching prayers becomes an act of preservation that anchors the family in their heritage. It is whispered in the careful folding of clothes, the scent of attar on collars and the way a scarf is draped just right as if her hands are stitching stories through a thread.

A mother hums songs older than the walls she stands in and sings to children who may never understand the words but who will remember the tune when this world feels far away.

A grandmother kneels and her prayer beads sound like rain, tapping against the floor, beating out rhythms of resilience. She teaches by the glow of lamps, by the soft hush of bedtime tales, that the heart of home is made by the smallest of things.

In kitchens, recipes are not written but lived — a pinch of spice measured not by spoons, but by instinct, by muscle memory passed from palm to palm.

The quiet work of home is done between the hours; not in grand feasts, but in the daily bread of duty. She holds everything together in the bending down, the rising up, the unacknowledged ways, like the silent thread that mends a tear no one notices.

Her labour exists in the room's shadows, where she serves first and eats last. The plates are cooled but her heart is warm because fullness isn’t found in the meal, but in the act of giving.

Home is the space she builds from memory, where Eid morning smells like cardamom and clove, and Chand Raat flickers with stories of another time. Where the line between Bangladesh and Canada is blurred by the taste of something that feels like belonging.

A South Asian mother tasked with preparing for Eid often balances elaborate meals, decorations and rituals, sometimes while adjusting to life in a new country. She preserves these practices not for herself, but for those who may forget. She is the bridge between past and present, the keeper of both celebration and sorrow, the soft place where tradition lands when the world outside is too sharp.

A sister writes reminders in the margins of calendars and her hands move like clockwork. She ticks through chores while holding books, balancing babies on her hips and papers on desks as if her body was designed for multitasking survival and sacrifice.

The quiet work of home even exists in the gaze of women who watch, silently noting the weight her back carries. It exists in the sigh she exhales when everyone sleeps and the house finally hears her voice.

For this work is love, though it rarely gets a name, and the stories she weaves are often left unsaid, passed down not through words, but through action, through ritual — through the things she never asks to be thanked for.

But I see it in the way my grandmother's hands still knead dough and my mother adjusts the hem of my dress.

Home is a quilt of silent labour, stitched by women who speak tradition fluently, even when they no longer know where home begins and where it ends.

And though the world may never notice, these silent threads, woven by generations of women, will forever hold our homes together.

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